Well, “breaking up” is a rather overdramatic way to put it.
But last week I caught up on Caroline’s post at Un-Fancy on moving away from capsules and it put into words some frustrations with the capsule wardrobe concept that had been swimming in my head for awhile but that I hadn’t been able to articulate.
Part of my frustration comes from having my capsule wardrobe on a blog for all to see (obviously a self-inflicted problem).
Every time I ditch something I didn’t love or buy something that wasn’t in the “original” capsule, I think about how to rationalize it on the blog. You may have noticed I haven’t done a “Thrift Finds” post in awhile because if I just bought a new shirt and a new dress but my summer capsule was supposed to be set weeks ago…how do I explain that I’m still shopping??
This leads me to the balance of my frustration with capsule wardrobes: my shopping and my style don’t fit in the neat, tidy structure inherent to having a discrete set of clothes for a season.
I love thrifting, and while I DO like that capsules encourage me not to buy things I don’t need, if I find the PERFECT summer dress while looking for clothes for my kid or a used LP, I’m not going to not buy it. Thrifting is a long game and this means always being alert to the coups de foudre that will make my wardrobe stronger in the long run.
And I like living into my clothing choices, not figuring them all out before a season starts and sticking with that exact configuration until the season is over. I want to tweak and adjust and play. Plus I’m still working on elements of my style – like my winter wardrobe silhouette – and I don’t want to feel stuck if something doesn’t work out like I imagined.
So while I’d like to maintain a core of stuff I love, I also want to give myself permission to experiment, swap in and out, and get sick of things outside of that core – the fringe, if you will. And like unto fringe at the edge of a garment, this fringe will be the icing on my wardrobe, not the majority of it.
The core will be defined by the 2 best things I learned from capsules:
- A cohesive style/color palette. A capsule thrives on being able to mix and match most of the clothing so you don’t have to buy tons of pieces to put together a great outfit. I love that this concept gives me a tighter closet that’s super easy to get dressed out of.
- Enough is enough. While living into my seasonal capsules, I eventually reach this satiated point where I mentally go “Ahhhh, my wardrobe feels like a good fit.” (Uh, pun intended?) I know I’m there when I don’t have the desire to go shopping for that season anymore. I’m going to carry that feeling with me into this core/fringe model – just because I *can* shop without limits doesn’t mean I *should.*
Bonus to both of these: it’s so freeing to have a manageable amount of clothes in terms of storage, laundry, and maintenance!
For those of you who love the visual inspiration of seeing a collection of clothes all playing together – me too! Don’t worry, I’ll still do this. I’ll probably take a page from Caroline and create a visual collage of my “core” each season, and supplement that with more “thrift find” posts. Sound good?
What about you and capsules, Thrifters? Were capsules never really your thing? Or did you jump on the bandwagon? If so, are you still madly in love with them or ready to move on? Scroll down to comment!